I'm a huge geek. To be fair I am the king of the geeks in my area since I own a chain of comic book and game stores. So as long as I go to comic book stores I'm cool. I'm married and have a daughter who one day will rule my geek empire. I work a lot. Did I mention a lot?
I'm also the site owner of Supernaturally Twisted (www.spntwisted.com), an open fanfiction archive for Supernatural crossover fanfic.
I'm also a moderator at Twisting the Hellmouth (www.tthfanfic.org), a great Buffy crossover site.
And I'm also the owner of Atlantis Games & Comics (www.atlantis-comics.com) which has 3 locations in the Hampton Roads, Va area.
So there you have it. Between comic book stores and fanfiction I have no real grasp of what "ordinary" people do. But I can say that to me it doesn't seem very ordinary at all.